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Tuesday, April 10, 2012

I tend to think a lot, too much sometimes.  Recently, I've noticed more and more often that this really isn't a good sign at all.  Especially in times like this, when a decision is supposed to be made, I struggle.  I do not know how to pick and I'm too afraid to pick.  So I stand still, I refuse to move.
And then, when the crowd moves on, I'm left behind instead.

I think there are people out there, in the same situation, trying to make a choice.  Probably choosing a movie, deciding whether or not to buy a new dress, a new car, not sure whether or not to get a pet.  Or perhaps, like me, wondering what to do after getting my high school results.
I wish there are people out there in the same situation, trying to make a choice, people who would understand my confusion.
And yet, at the same time, I wish no one else had to be in this state of confusion.

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Dear Self,
Look at these daily messages you've been collecting, aren't these a gentle reminder for you, that God loves you, no matter what?
Don't you believe He has the best in store for you, if only you are willing to take that first step?
Don't you trust that even if you do fail, He'll be there to catch your fall?
Have some faith, it's very important.

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On this day, God wants you to know that when you focus on problems, you will have more problems. When you focus on possibilities, you will have more opportunities.

On this day, God wants you to know that you learn what you do. If you worry a lot, then day after day you are learning how to worry even better. If you think about doing something a lot, then you are learning how to think about doing. Every moment you are happy, you are learning how to be even happier. Every time you act, you are learning how to take an action even better. What is it that you've been learning today? What is it that you want to learn tomorrow?

On this day, God wants you to know that humans learn only by trial and error, and that includes you. You've got to live life, not think about it. Step into the midst of things, try and fail and learn and stand up again. The question is not whether you will or will not make mistakes - you will. The question is do you want to learn and grow, or do you want to shrink back and be stuck? Take that step you've been avoiding. You can succeed, or you can get feedback that it didn't work, but in either case you are sure to feel alive.

On this day, God wants you to know that you are to trust yourself. If you do not, then you will forever be looking to others to prove your own merit to you, and you will never be satisfied. You will always be asking others what to do and at the same time resenting their help. Trust in yourself starts with being ok with the consequences of your decisions.

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